I've come to the conclusion that I am the reason my daughter is stressed out about the potty. I am forever after her:
"Gracie, do you have to go potty in the toilet? Where do you go potty? Do you go potty on your panties? No, where do you go potty?"
I stress her out. There's no doubt about it. I know this because she had a fantastic day with Abue Rosi. In fact, Gracie and Lukie had a fantastic potty training day. They both wore underwear (well, Lukie wore Gracie's pajama bottoms as underwear, but don't tell him that) and ran to the bathroom all by themselves. When they are with me, they pee on the couch, on the carpet, on their clothes. It sucks and it makes me want to put a Pull-Up on them.
Add to that my determination to teach my son to pee in the toilet sitting down. He has horrific aim and I am not interested in scrubbing a toilet free of boy urine. I'm just not. I've read several opinions and almost all of them agree that boys need to be taught to pee sitting down. Why? Because they forget they need to sit to poop. Can you imagine him standing to pee only to...OOPS...poop on the floor??? Unfortunately, at Abue Rosi's house, all of the males pee standing up and Lukie wants to be like them. Personally, I think it is incredibly foul to pee standing up. There. I said it. It's totally disgusting. I can just see the pee spraying all over. Yuck!
It isn't really a battle, at least, I don't feel like I am engaged in one. In the end, it will all work out. No one goes to kindergarten in diapers.
But with my luck, Gracie and Luke will be the first.